Jake and Emily. Day 17.

I'm still unsure about the future of this relationship. I'm enjoying it now.”

 
 
 

Jake

Tell us about today!

We went over to Jordan's house today to do our relationship coaching.  We really like Jordan, he does a great job. We talked about things that were going well in our relationship and things that weren't going as well.  Honestly, there isn't anything that is going terribly wrong at this point. I mean, we have only been dating for about two weeks at this point. It's hard for me to foresee what potential struggles we might have at this point.

We sort of left on a weird note, but our discussion from our therapy session sparked some good conversation for us afterwards and I think It helped us bond and helped us better understand each other's expectations for the relationship.

What did you learn about them? What did you learn about yourself?

We talked about what each other wants in a relationship.

It's interesting how being in a relationship can help you see your flaws a little easier.  I've learned some ways that I can be a better boyfriend.

On a scale from 1-10 how would you rate your time together today?

Seven. I felt like we bonded and got to know each other better today.

On a scale from 1-10 how positively do you feel about your relationship at this point?

Seven. I'm still unsure about the future of this relationship. I'm enjoying it now. Time will tell!

On a scale from 1-10 how would you rate your chemistry with him/her?

Seven.






Emily

Tell us about today!

We had our two-week follow-up coaching with Jordan. He was great to take time out of his day to talk through stuff with us. For whatever reason, I struggled through this one a little. I had a little bit of a vulnerability hangover after our coaching session wondering if I shared too much or if I could've phrased some things in a better way. I don't want what I shared to get in Jake's head too much. But I guess it's good to be open with how I'm feeling (#BreneBrown).  


What did you learn about them? What did you learn about yourself?

We talked a lot about what we're looking for and got into the details of some of our past relationships... I know it wasn’t all serious stuff today, but I can’t seem to remember the fun facts

On a scale from 1-10 how would you rate your time together today?

Five.

On a scale from 1-10 how positively do you feel about your relationship at this point?

Three. I’m realizing that uncertainty affects my positivity. I know if I ask more questions, then I’ll have less uncertainty. That’s something for me to work on.

On a scale from 1-10 how would you rate your chemistry with him/her?

Five.