Brian and Sarah. Day 21.

“I could tell Brian was a little frustrated at my lack of communication.”

 
 
 
 

Brian

Tell us about today!

Today was the first time during our thirty days that we didn’t actually connect except for a couple of texts.

Tbh I don’t know what to say about today. I guess I’m a little bugged because I know this situation is pretty difficult for her, but it’s difficult for both of us and it would’ve been nice to have some communication. I know I’m being a diva, but these last couple of days have been ROUGH!

What did you learn about them? What did you learn about yourself?

Something that has always been hard for me is to express myself when I get bugged about something, because I know once I talk to her next everything will be fine and it’ll be no big deal. But eventually all these little deals accumulate and it becomes a big deal, so this is a good opportunity to express how I feel and then move on from it!

Something I’ve learned (through the previous days together) about Sarah is that she is very understanding and does not have bad/mean intentions at all. So I’m glad I get to practice having this hard conversation with her, because I know she’ll be very understanding and it’ll be a good overall experience for us...if that makes sense. BUCKLE UP, SARAH! (that makes it sound aggressive, but it really won’t be that bad of a conversation)

On a scale from 1-10 how would you rate your time together today?

Two.

On a scale from 1-10 how positively do you feel about your relationship at this point?

Four.

On a scale from 1-10 how would you rate your chemistry with him/her?

Five.

Sarah

Tell us about today!

We texted some but weren’t able to hang out or connect. I had a very long and late day at work and didn’t get home till midnight, Brian went to bed at 11. We texted a few times but communication was minimal today. I could tell Brian was a little frustrated at my lack of communication which was completely understandable. I wasn't expecting to have to stay at work so late, but Brian was understanding and nice about it which helped me feel better.

What did you learn about them? What did you learn about yourself?

Nothing.

On a scale from 1-10 how would you rate your time together today?

Six. Same. Felt bad we weren’t able to connect but he was understanding.

On a scale from 1-10 how positively do you feel about your relationship at this point?

Six. Same.

On a scale from 1-10 how would you rate your chemistry with him/her?

Six.