Brian and Sarah. Day 17.

“I think we have a very healthy (unromantic) relationship.”

 
 
 
 

Brian

Tell us about today!

Today was therapy day! We met up for therapy at about 5:30, and then were together until about 7:30.

What did you learn about them? What did you learn about yourself?

Sarah shared with me her annoying voice today.. and it was very annoying hah! I mean she purposely wanted it to be annoying.

On a scale from 1-10 how would you rate your time together today?

Seven. I felt like it was a good time to spend together. We hadn't seen each other all weekend. We had therapy, which I was a little nervous about going into, because I wasn't exactly sure what was going to be discussed.

I was pretty proud of us, because a lot of what was discussed in therapy, we had already discussed as a couple. So it was good to reiterate what we'd already talked about (mostly our goals for these next two weeks and how we were going to help each other out).

On a scale from 1-10 how positively do you feel about your relationship at this point?

Eight. I really enjoy Sarah and I think we have a very healthy (unromantic) relationship! We are very open with each other and I'm excited for us to grow more during this home stretch!

On a scale from 1-10 how would you rate your chemistry with him/her?

Seven,

Sarah

Tell us about today!

We had our third counseling session and talked about our goals. I had spoken to Brian about how I didn’t feel right about pursuing a romantic relationship with him, so we had decided to utilize our last 2 weeks together in a way where we can motivate and encourage us to be our best selves. We felt like that was the perfect way we could get the most out of the last two weeks while keeping our relationship in a healthy place. We took the weekend to think about what it is we wanted to improve on so we can hold each other accountable. We both made some personal goals and talked to each other about them on the way over to the counseling session.

What did you learn about them? What did you learn about yourself?

He is driven and has an awesome idea for his own company! I'm excited to see what comes of it. He's really smart so I know he can do it.

On a scale from 1-10 how would you rate your time together today?

Seven. Therapy always makes me feel a little awkward, just because Jordan pushes me past my comfort zone and asks hard questions.

On a scale from 1-10 how positively do you feel about your relationship at this point?

Seven. Same.

On a scale from 1-10 how would you rate your chemistry with him/her?

Six.