John and Jane. Day 7.

“Pretty doubtful at this point.”



Tell us about today!


What did you learn about them? What did you learn about yourself?

In the attachment personality type I put myself as a secure. Today I realized I may be more of an anxious attachment style, or this relationship is making me question what my attachment style is.   

On a scale from 1-10 how would you rate your time together today?

One. We didn’t see each other

On a scale from 1-10 how positively do you feel about your relationship at this point?

Two. Second time I have been stood up. I don't know if this can continue.

How are you feeling about this experiment?

Pretty doubtful at this point

On a scale from 1-10 how would you rate your chemistry with him/her?



Today at church I sent a message to Jane asking if she was heading to LA for the World Series. She replied and said she bought a ticket but didn't realize it was for another weekend. I thought that was unfortunate that she booked a ticket for the wrong weekend. Then I said we should do something today and I never heard back. I called her and no reply all day until 7. When she called me back and said she was going down to Provo for a trivia night but that she would text me when she left so we could do something later. It is now past midnight and I have not heard from her. So I hope she is ok and nothing happened to her. I have been kind of anxious all day wondering what her plans were because I wanted to see her. I would have loved to go down to trivia night with her. Unfortunately, no invite. I am sure she just forgot to get back to me but still kinda sucks to be stood up. I feel as thought I am being avoided which is not a fun feeling. It may just be an innocent "forgot to get back to me." Either way I don't know how this experiment will continue if we can't see each other. My schedule is open and I have reached out multiple times to go on dates and hang but no success. I don't know what to do from here.


Yeah, hi. Is this thing on?


John and Jane30 Day Bae Team